Acting Dean of Students | Mr Damien Cuddihy

Thank you for the way in which the boys returned for the start of Term 4. It was obvious that you played a significant role in making sure they returned to school for the final term well-presented and in the right frame of mind. It is a partnership that ensures we continue to work together to attain the best outcomes for your son/s. 

Unfortunately, we will not be rescheduling the Inter-House Track and Field Carnival this year due to the inclement weather last week. Many thanks to the parents who were prepared to assist with the running of the day. I realise this is the second year in a row that we have cancelled the event based on a forecast of rain. It is a decision that is not made lightly and will often result in conservative action taken for the wider community.  However, a group of students from Reidy House were able to go ahead with their annual “Rough Night In” at Waterford Place on Saturday night. Social workers from Brisbane Youth Services joined the boys during the evening to speak about the organisation. It was great to see a large number of Year 11 students assisting Mr Johnson with running the event. 

Dr Paul Gibney presented to Year 9 parents on Tuesday night on the topic Adolescent Boys, Parents and Families: Towards a Mature Masculinity. Paul has been presenting to our Year 9 cohorts for several years and provides a valuable insight into adolescent life. One aspect of the presentation focus is to embrace your son’s 'second family' - his friendship group. This could include the boys in his House group, rowing crew, debating team or handball group. I have shared this before but I find the following reflection from Jordan Peterson (2018) particularly insightful.

The infant is dependent on his parents for almost everything he needs. The child – the successful child – can leave his parents, at least temporarily, and make friends.  He gives up a little of himself to do that, but gains much in return.  The successful adolescent must take that process to its logical conclusion. He has to leave his parents and become like everyone else.  He has to integrate with the group so he can transcend his childhood dependency.  Once integrated, the successful adult then must learn how to be just the right amount different from everyone else.

Finally, a number of our Year 10 students had the opportunity to meet their new Buddies for 2020 at the Year 5 Orientation evening last night. As usual, I was immensely proud of the way in which the boys conducted themselves and engaged with the newest members of our community. Term 4 can sometimes be a term when boys lose focus as the end of the year draws near. If you are concerned about your son with regards to this, please make contact with his House Dean.