Assistant Dean of Identity | Mr Chris Zamitt

Over the weekend, many of us celebrated Father’s Day in our own unique way. It was an opportunity to honour all the things our fathers do for us throughout our lives. Fathers come in all forms, so the day was also a chance to acknowledge those stepdads, older brothers, uncles, grandfathers and all the men, living and deceased, who tirelessly and selflessly give themselves for their families with unconditional love.

The role that fathers play in our lives is an important one. Research shows that fathers play a vital role in the social-emotional wellbeing of children. Children look to their fathers for physical and emotional security, not to mention affection and support. Fathers who are involved promote inner strength and influence the kind of respectful relationships children have with others. For boys, many will seek approval from their fathers at a very young age and learn how to interact and function in the world.

On our Year 8 Emmaus retreat, we have explored what it means to be a 'man' in our world today and the idea that our young men often look for role models on their journey to adulthood. The saying Being a male is a matter of birth; being a man is a matter of age, but being a gentleman is a matter of choice readily comes to mind. The social construct of masculinity opens us up to so many ideas of what it means to be men in our world today, but inevitably we look to those close to us who model this every day.

For me, Father’s Day is a slightly toned down occasion as I reflect on my father and the enormous role he played in my life. Sadly, he passed away suddenly in 2019, but he endowed many essential life lessons that I hold close; the importance of being present to others, contributing to the community, and enjoying the simple things in life. He loved the outdoors and always made an effort to include those on the outer. And he knew that relationships, above all else, are about looking for the face of Jesus in others.

We also learn from the story of St Joseph the values of loyalty, patience and obedience, and it is fitting that in this Year of St Joseph, we acknowledge the fatherly role he plays in the life of Jesus. Chosen by God to be both Mary’s husband and the father of Jesus, Joseph willingly took up the responsibilities of a faithful servant and loving husband. He modelled hard work and humility, both values prized here at Terrace. Above all, he was a man of faith who gave without expectation of receiving a reward.

Thank you to all the dads out there, in whatever form you come! I hope it was a special day of celebration for everything you do.

On this Father’s Day, in the year of St Joseph, we ask God’s blessing on all fathers and for those who play a fatherly role in our lives. May every grace be given to them, and may the virtues of St Joseph; prudence, bravery, obedience, loyalty and patience, be theirs in abundance.

Live Jesus in our Hearts… Forever!
St Joseph… Pray for us!
Amen