Captains’ Corner | Vice Captain, Tom Woodrow

Last Sunday marked the fifth year since Robin Williams tragically passed away. For millions of fans around the world, it was a day to mourn the death of the beloved comedian, but also a time to celebrate the wonderful legacy Robin left behind and the long-lasting effect his words and actions will have on our world. 

I still remember the day I found out Robin had passed away. I was in Year 7 and as an oblivious 12-year-old kid, I mistook Robin for the English singer-songwriter, Robbie Williams. So, I was beyond confused when my teacher stopped the class to talk about some of his favourite movies; a list which included greats such as Aladdin, Good Will Hunting, Dead Poets Society and Good Morning Vietnam. However, being the clueless kid that I was it was only after he said Mrs Doubtfire when I finally put a face to a name. 

The comedic genius. The charismatic poetry teacher. The compassionate therapist.

Ever since that day in Year 7, I have been an avid fan. I have watched his movies more times than I can count. I have read hundreds of news articles on him. And I have even visited the park bench from Good Will Hunting – the one from which he spoke that powerful monologue. Yet, one thing that has stood out to me throughout these years of ‘fanboying’ is a sad truth that I came to realise; those who appear happiest in the world may be those suffering the most. 

“If you are that depressed, reach out to someone. And remember, suicide is a permanent solution, to a temporary problem.” 
Robin Williams

The other day I came upon this quote. A message from Robin which may have saved the lives of many, yet one which didn’t save his. For on 11 August 2014, Robin Williams took his own life, unable to remember the words he spoke just years before. 

From hundreds of profound and meaningful things Robin preached throughout his time on Earth, I believe this quote is one of the most important ones to remember. It is a reminder to those who may be going through a rough time to carry on. Although it may be long and dark, there is always light at the end of the tunnel. This is something I want the members of the Terrace Family to know. On average 3000 Australians take their own life each year, so it is vital that we as a community remember Robin’s words. 

Therefore, to those of you who are reading this newsletter, I offer you a challenge; I challenge you to take some time out of your own busy schedule and have a conversation with someone who may be struggling – whether it be with homework, a broken heart or the death of a family member. You do not have to offer them words of wisdom or even try to make them feel better, your presence is all that’s needed. 

When Sean Maguire (played by Robin Williams) opened up to Will Hunting in that famous scene in Good Will Hunting, Will did not say a thing. His words weren’t necessary; rather, it was his presence and his readiness to listen which made all the difference in their relationship and in Sean’s life. Similarly, when you have a conversation with that person you feel may be struggling, do not get caught up worrying about giving an inspirational speech to cheer them up. Instead just listen to them. Sometimes in life, by putting yourself in the shoes of another you can truly get to know another on a more personal level and in doing so you show that struggling person that you care about them and will always be there to support them. 

Terrace’s motto in 2019 is All In. To us, it is more than a poker phrase. It is a commitment to those people beside you that you will walk with them during the good times and the bad. All In does not end at 3pm and it isn’t just confined to the 1665 men who go to school every day. It includes the teachers, the parents, the staff, the brothers, the sisters, the friends, and more. Everyone who is a part of the Terrace family is All In and that is why I ask you to look out for those around you because it just may save a life.

God Bless.